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To get a man with erectile dysfunction (ED) excited, you need to focus on pleasure and closeness instead of penetration. It's important to talk about your wants, worries, and what makes you feel good. Check out erogenous areas that aren't in the pelvic area, like the neck, ears, and nipples. You could also try romantic massages or baths together. Try out different kinds of touch and feelings to find out what makes you feel aroused. Do things that bring people closer together emotionally, like kissing, touching, or doing things you both enjoy. To improve your senses, you might want to use vibrators or oils. Deep breathing or practicing awareness are two ways to relax that can help lower performance stress and anxiety. Remember that being close and intimate is more important than getting something done. Encourage them to be patient and understanding, and if they need to, get professional help to deal with the underlying mental or physical issues that are causing their ED.